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					<description><![CDATA[In reply to &lt;a href=&quot;https://threequestionleadership.com/2019/12/05/mastering-the-ask/#comment-373&quot;&gt;Eric Kaiser&lt;/a&gt;.

&lt;blockquote&gt;Investing in humans who are investing in humans is one of the most complicated and challenging things I do as a youth pastor.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;I believe we all have a leadership role in the lives of others. Some have a greater capacity that others.&lt;/blockquote&gt;

John Maxwell talks about the Law of the Lid--that someone&#039;s leadership ability determines their level of effectiveness. I spend a lot of time contemplating that concept--how do I raise my lid and how do I raise the lid of those around me? Definitely one of the most challenging and complicated things we do. Thanks for sharing!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In reply to <a href="https://threequestionleadership.com/2019/12/05/mastering-the-ask/#comment-373">Eric Kaiser</a>.</p>
<blockquote><p>Investing in humans who are investing in humans is one of the most complicated and challenging things I do as a youth pastor.</p></blockquote>
<blockquote><p>I believe we all have a leadership role in the lives of others. Some have a greater capacity that others.</p></blockquote>
<p>John Maxwell talks about the Law of the Lid&#8211;that someone&#8217;s leadership ability determines their level of effectiveness. I spend a lot of time contemplating that concept&#8211;how do I raise my lid and how do I raise the lid of those around me? Definitely one of the most challenging and complicated things we do. Thanks for sharing!</p>
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					<description><![CDATA[For me, it&#039;s all about relationships. 

When I have a TASK that needs to be done, I focus on who can get the task completed. If we&#039;re talking about getting chairs set up or preparing a food item, there are A LOT of people who are capable of doing that. If we&#039;re talking about more soft skills like helping teenagers feel welcome and cared for or investing in teenagers, it&#039;s not only a smaller group who can accomplish that, it&#039;s also about potential in humans. 

If I see a person is capable of filling a need in our youth ministry, I need to invest in them personally the way I want them to invest in teenagers. That means I need to know them fairly well before I recruit them, but also they need to trust me before they&#039;ll say yes to something. Then I assess what skills they need to develop and equip them to develop them. It&#039;s basic discipleship in the context of ministry. 

I don&#039;t say all this to imply it&#039;s easy. Investing in humans who are investing in humans is one of the most complicated and challenging things I do as a youth pastor. However, I think we tend to either say that anyone can lead if they are willing or say that only an elite few can lead. I believe we all have a leadership role in the lives of others. Some have a greater capacity that others.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For me, it&#8217;s all about relationships. </p>
<p>When I have a TASK that needs to be done, I focus on who can get the task completed. If we&#8217;re talking about getting chairs set up or preparing a food item, there are A LOT of people who are capable of doing that. If we&#8217;re talking about more soft skills like helping teenagers feel welcome and cared for or investing in teenagers, it&#8217;s not only a smaller group who can accomplish that, it&#8217;s also about potential in humans. </p>
<p>If I see a person is capable of filling a need in our youth ministry, I need to invest in them personally the way I want them to invest in teenagers. That means I need to know them fairly well before I recruit them, but also they need to trust me before they&#8217;ll say yes to something. Then I assess what skills they need to develop and equip them to develop them. It&#8217;s basic discipleship in the context of ministry. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t say all this to imply it&#8217;s easy. Investing in humans who are investing in humans is one of the most complicated and challenging things I do as a youth pastor. However, I think we tend to either say that anyone can lead if they are willing or say that only an elite few can lead. I believe we all have a leadership role in the lives of others. Some have a greater capacity that others.</p>
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